Showing posts with label a word from the groom. Show all posts
Showing posts with label a word from the groom. Show all posts

Monday, November 19

Finding our love-nest- bara-bara couple style

Like with many things in our relationship, serendipity played a very big role in getting us our dream home.

It was Thursday evening, and, pleasantly tired from the evening's viewings, we were going to call it a night, when at a last minute whim, we decided to surf for pictures of Grande Vista Condo, which we were scheduled to visit the next day with an agent. Being an older development, it was next to impossible, when we finally chanced on two e-advertisements.

The first was for someone who had newly renovated a 2 story flat in Grande-Vista, and the second was for someone who was also renting out a newly renovated 3 bedroom unit on the 8th floor. Apparently the place was a mix of high and low rise units. The low rise unit was going for about 3.5K - way beyond our budget, but the second unit was going for 2.8K - slightly higher than what our agent was quoting at 2.4K - but hey the former was 'newly renovated'. Jotting down the owner's number, I resolved to call the next day to book an additional appointment.

Yes- true to form, I almost forgot to call the owner. If not for my random flipping of my notebook on a relatively slow Friday, I could have missed making the call entirely. Michelle (the owner) actually had an appointment later in the evening, but on the goodness of her heart decided to squeeze us in for a 730 drop.

We made it just in time, coming from a previous viewing at Orchid Plaza. This had definite potential and in fact we were about 70-30 % convinced on signing it up. The estate was relatively old, but the unit was clean, breezily designed, and had absolutely brilliant facilities. Still, we thought we'd give Grande Vista a shot before deciding.

7:29. Yes, we were early. Us. We eagerly awaited Michelle and Julian. They turned out to be positively charming. Michelle was Singaporean, but had a distinct British twang; Julian was a quiet unassuming fellow from New-Zealand, and in-tow, they had an absolutely adorable little mestiso. Charmed by the couple, our spirits picked up as we were about to enter the unit. As soon as the door opened, our spirits soared. It wasn't just renovated - the couple knew detail and taste - a rare trait on this island so far.

What we first saw however, and really loved, was the open kitchen, that had a bar top set dividing the kitchen and dining room.



The kitchen had ample storage and !God bless! an oven- which both Deeps and I were personally craving for.


The dining room was no slouch either. The one piece of furniture was this beautiful classic glass and hard wood 6 piece set. Over it was a built in display nook, perfect for our knick-knacks.



As we walked on the beautiful marble floor, my eye got drawn to the balcony - spacious enough for me to paint in (goodbye enclosed paint fumes!) and inspiring enough for Deepa to plan to surprise me with an herb garden. Alas the surprise was not meant to be a surprise, as we both had the same idea! Still - she gets to surprise me with the herb choice and arrangement - something I'm really looking forward to!


Julian then showed me what every guy wants - a TV room - with hard wood panels installed for perfect darkness, a built in stand, and console storage. I was already planning the perfect TV for this; but this is another story.


Saving the best for last -and it is the best personally because I am amused at how much this one item just bowled over my hon: a walk-in closet.




She was totally floored. So much that she forgot to pay attention to the rest of the house! (May banyo ba yung masters hon? A? Talaga, may washing machine pala? Phone line? Nasaan?) Needless to say, Imeldific fantasies must have trooped all around in her loveable brain. Me - I'm just glad she's that happy!

As we walked out the sala we muttered- 'Ano, kunin ba natin to? Aba oo! Mag ne-nego ba tayo? Wag na! Anong hihingin natin? Wala!' I tossed my bargaining skills and caution to the wind. We decided to play it straight. 'We loved it, we can't afford 2.8, can we go to 2.6, and ask for nothing in addition?' Somehow, I think they were surprised, we were so honest and so non-fussy. We closed that night at 2.7 by the poolside. Our first home!!!!!!


Deepa's one request to follow - can I take more pictures and measurements? All she remembered was the closet! In fairness- all I can fully picture is how wonderful my dream television will look in that TV room!

Sunday, November 18

Searching for the perfect nest

Two weeks ago, Deepa flew in for what promised to be a hectic weekend of flurried activity. Apart from the customary first dinner at Jumbo, this weekend promised to be different from all the other weekends we shared here in Singapore. That weekend we were going to look for our first house (to rent, unfortunately and not to own, but hey, we all have to start somewhere.)

Not only was it our first home, but we both loved looking at house and interior decorating magazines. Needless to say, we were stoked. The weekend was set- I had a little army of Singaporean brokers scouring the land for the perfect Condo - within 2-2.5K /month, at least 2 bedrooms, must have pool, no more than 40 minute commute from central, relatively decent finishings. (2.5 sounds like a lot, but in today's housing shortage, having a budget of 2.5 means that we get sent to what counts for boonies in lala land. Central housing costs about 5-7K!)

The first night was busy -we had 2 condo's lined up (a third cancelled) , on opposite sides of the island.The first sounded promising - by the beach, 2 bedrooms. 2.2 K, with facilities. Then we learned just how broad a spectrum of apartments that description can fit. It fit the specifications, but the place was so tiny, and so confusingly built, that all we could mutter was 'parang crystal maze ang theme nito a!'

Just when we thought it couldn't get any worse - we entered the master's bedroom, and got screamed at by the ultra loud jungle-boogie themed room. WHO in their right mind covers a bathroom with ZEBRA prints?



To make matters worse, a LIFE SIZE faded print of two jungle cats snarled over the bed.


Not even the modelesque agent could charm the the shocked looks off from our faces.


First place condo (Escada!) was a bust.

Not to be discouraged - we went off to the second apointment of the day: Chiltern Park just off serangoon road. The place had exactly the same specs we asked for, but the agents comments of "resort-style living!" seemed more promising. Truth be told, as we pulled into the lobby, we began to feel the possibilities.


Well lighted, spacious, built around an inner courtyard, the place was a much welcome breather.


What fully took our breath away however was how gorgeous the layout of the unit was. Spacious and well designed, it was painted in a warm and rich sea-aqua that I knew Deepa was loving.


The living room ceiling was even slightly elevated to allow for a chandelier!



We were giving each other knowing side looks. Was this our paradise?

Then the owner dropped the bomb. All -ALL the furniture had to stay. Our side looks turned to horror. The padded white master's bed na mukhang pang Victoria Court sabi ng officemate ni Deepa. ("It's good bed lah! no sharp corners" said the owner as he saw our doubtful faces )...



the flea bitten sofa bed in the guest room in the confused print... (Very relaxing lah!)


... the black office lobby pleather couch? (No need to buy sofa set lah!) The owner was irritatingly lazy as he refused to get back his 80's red-light district furniture. Can't he get his crap back rather than push them on his hapless tenants? (Look bonus! I give you the bull horn I bought from texas!) Great. Just what we wanted.

We shuffled out to the courtyard.


The overall place was gorgeous...

... but the furniture! We can't even sell and replace them! Even the olympic sized pool, the well stocked gym couldnt get the nagging feeling out of our minds. It was a good start - but it wasn't perfect. Needless to say, the agent's annoyingly insistent cajoling to put a downpayment to 'reserve' the place fell on deaf ears.

We walked away- Our dream home was still out there.

Next- finding the perfect nest.

Sunday, October 21

From the comments section :-)

At this point I admit to two things ...

1.) How very proud I am of how much my beloved is doing; I can't beleive that I, a guy, am actually excited by our flowers.

2.) How of all the years I spent abroad, these past few months have been absolute torture - and how I wish I could be more physically present at home these past month.

To all the lucky guys out there who are physically present with your fiancees as you plan and prepare for your big day, you have no idea how lucky you are.

The Groom

Monday, October 8

AAAAAAARGGGGGH

less than three full months to go! and still so much to do!

marlon's flying in for the weekend. gone (for now) are the days of our lazy mall-hopping, canoodling and snacking. here's what our weekend is looking like.

friday
  • download music options for avps
  • choose music for avps
  • choose prayers and readings
  • finish laying out misalette (in preparation for our meeting with fr. nebres on tuesday)
  • second fitting of gown lining at kate's
  • withdraw money for wedding rings
  • get marlon's ring size
  • get wedding rings at glorietta
  • finalize departure time with kaye (for ocular inspection of balay on saturday)
  • get marlon's approval on invitations mock-up
  • pay deposit to printer for invitations
saturday
  • canonical interview with monsignor alberto buongaling at canyon woods (good luck!)
  • get marriage banns from the bishop
  • ocular inspection of balay indang with kaye
  • figure out where to put directional tarps leading to balay
  • figure out floor plan
  • relax... or catch up with all the things we didn't do the day before

sunday

  • head back to manila
  • have lunch at tita pearlie and tito carlos's house in merville (if time)
  • pick up therese for entourage fitting
  • entourage fitting at tria's
  • get ID pictures taken
  • check that all requirements are complete for our marriage license application on monday

monday

  • apply for marriage license at qc city hall in the morning
  • find some place nearby to have lunch while waiting
  • attend family planning seminar at city hall in the afternoon
  • inspect marlon's custom-woven barong fabric at angelo's barong on kamuning
  • (hopefully, crossing fingers big-time here) finalize names for the invitations

i had a mini-meltdown two weeks ago when i updated our wedding plans on excel (a brilliant template courtesy of super-oc tria). actually, to marlon, it probably was anything but mini. but he got the magnitude of my overwhelmed-ness a few days later when i sent him the excel sheet. (i also think he was overwhelmed by the fact that i actually put all so much information together on excel, considering how allergic i am to it.)

then he said, "i'm glad all this is in your able hands, sweetie."

half-jokingly, of course.

i think.

Monday, August 13

But first, a word from our groom

to say that marlon and i were quaking in our boots at the start of the wedding preparations was an understatement. and so i post here one of marlon's first -- and to me, most hilarious and unforgettable -- statements as a groom-to-be.

it was early in the year, maybe around february, and we had just plunked down a sizeable amount of g's in non-refundable down payments for the church and reception venue, most of it from marlon's stash-o-cash. i tallied the total amount and reported to him over the phone just how much money we would never see again.

a hiccup of shocked silence as we both considered that our commitment was now taking (rather daunting and considerable) monetary form. then:

"kung break-an mo ako this year, papatayin talaga kita." (if you break up with me this year, i am so going to kill you.)

that's my boy!